Form your own nuclear family with your brother, forget about the rest of the family. Your parents will probably come whining when you or bro have kids, whereas their favorite, your cousin, will be doing 8 to 10 - but seeing what they are doing to your cousin, you probably don't want them round your kids, anyway...NTA, you should take care of your mental health before you can be the best of who you can be for your nieces/nephews. Your niece's behavior is learned, your sister is modeling it to her. Avoid her and the mom like the plagues they are to your mental well being. 1.Service ended around 430 and everyone was told to go to the reception. The wedding party had a limo to take them and a separate limo took the parents, grandparents, siblings. The couple is young and decided against family in the wedding party lol. It was 4 sorority sisters and fraternity brothers on each side. My wife and I drove.I (M17), for the record, have ASD, depression, ADHD and a major intolerance for children. I have an M37 brother with two kids, Niece (4) and Nephew (7). I have no idea how to write this post but I'll try my best. English is also not my first language. My brother is visiting with his two kids, for simplicity I'll call them Ni (ece) and Ne ...Parents have a right to choose who teaches their children and OP did not offer them the chance to choose. It is not OP's job to make sure that kids that are not their own are taught life lessons. This is parenting. If OP had mentioned that they spoke to the parents who refused to see this as a health concern, I would think differently.(28M). It's my niece's birthday party. She's turning 7, so I'm very excited. As a 7 year old, she really loves unicorns. Obviously, we chose for a unicorn themed playground for the children. My older sister, Sarah (32F), goes to help my mom plan and make the bouncy castles and the playground, the unicorns and the whole shebang.AITA for not letting my niece try on my engagement ring? Not the A-hole. My fiance's sister and her husband came over for dinner last night. They have a five-year-old daughter, "Emily." Some background: Emily is a very curious girl and loves to play and explore, and she really loves playing dress up.AITA for calling my 8-year-old niece ugly? My [20m] older sister [32f] and her husband have an 8-year-old niece, who I adore. She's smart, extremely precocious, and very funny. She's also, simply put, very unfortunate looking. Neither her parents are ugly, but she received the worst possible combination of their features.And your response was not inappropriate, nor hateful. Abortion is not a dirty word and it's a completely valid choice. Your sister seems perfectly content to push her values and beliefs on you, so she really has no right to act so wounded (or "deeply hurt" I guess) when you do the same. 3.ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my wife we can adopt her nephews but not her niece? My wife’s sister was recently found guilty of dealing to support her habit. She will be sentenced this week and is looking toward a long term because this is not her first time caught dealing. She has 3 children, 2 boys (4 and 5) and a girl (14).My brother Casey (32 y.o.) is much older than me (17 y.o.) He's married to my sister-in-law Mandy (36 y.o.) and they have two kids; My nephew Nick (3 ½ y.o.) and my niece Mya (2 y.o.) Mandy recently asked my parents if I could babysit Nick and Mya, since Mandy wanted to visit her mom and the original babysitter canceled last minute.After my niece "Claire" (19f) was born I was so happy to take her home but after three months my sister said that she and the father got back together and wanted their daughter back. Things did not go down well and since she was the biological mother, legally, she had every right to change her mind and our parents were on her side.Also if my kid dared to insult the food offerings to the host face, I would ground them for life. Those parents are AH for raising and supporting an entitled shit. Business_Divide_5679. NTA, everyone acts entitled. Nobody will die from not eating meat for few hours. The parents should apologise on how their daughter acted.Today, my sister came into my room yelling at me saying my niece has been having night terrors and it's my fault. She's been fussing to my mom and dad about it all day and now they want me to play kid friendly games or no games at all. i told them no one else is to blame but my sister because she allows my niece to come into my room or she ...Aita for admitting that my parents and niece what are the reason that I left. Throwaway. I (29 m) have a niece (19f), and as the title says, she and my parents are a massive …NTA I wish I had been your niece. My parents insisted I get a real degree, and go to a real college. I ended up attending one of the top culinary arts schools because I thought it would make everyone happy. I was on academic probation and flunked out in my second trimester. What I wanted to do was sing, learn music theory, and try my luck on ...Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I refused to give my niece a referral for a job at my workplace as I never worked with her and she failed a test I gave her, this might make me an asshole since she was laid off and needs a ...ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my niece to "keep it together until you can get the hell out"? Not the A-hole. I (42m) parted ways with my brother (42) a while ago based on differences of opinion, but he called me recently. He saw a video of his daughter (16) "slandering and insulting" him on her friend's podcast.YTA- I don't think it was your responsibility to tell your niece that. YTA, as a teacher at a K-8 school, there are still many students that are 10 and believe. I understand you wanting her to know the truth, but there were many other more appropriate ways that you could have gone about it. ESH.EllaEllaEm said: NTA because you were not lying to Sue. Sue asked you a question directly and you told her the truth. Her parents didn't like that you told her the truth, but that's on them because they want to/need to lie to her (about Santa and about how the world works). Sue is a person independent to her parents.My parents have been charging me rent since I was 16. I have a small company that makes me about $60,000 a year. I started it in high school. It is one of the reasons I graduated early from high school and why I got attention from recruiters. My parents said that since I was earning adult money I could take in adult responsibilities.As for my parents, they would have probably called abusive, I never really felt abused. However, after being told "it's my way or the high way" for the millionth time when I turned 18 I joined the Marines and choose the highway option. ... AITA for not caring if I meet my niece or nephew. I was going to post this on AITA, but a good ...I'm (20f) babysitting my niece (4f) for the week while my sister is on a business trip. My niece misses her mom so to cheer her up, I put a couple treats in her lunch. Her lunch was: A turkey and cheese sandwich with cucumbers and avocado. I also drew some cartoon characters on it with edible markers Carrot sticks and ranch Apple slicesMOD. Aita for admitting that my parents and niece what are the reason that I left. Not the A-hole. Throwaway. I (29 m) have a niece (19f), and as the title says, she and my parents are a massive reason why I moved away. When she was a little kid, she was unbelievably disrespectful, and just downright mean. She would literally scream, yell, if ...Reddit Stories - Aita for admitting that my parents and niece what are ... ... Video. HomeWelcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: My sister is calling me an ah for not letting my niece come over I feel I could be an ah as I might make it impossible for my sister to visit more than 2 days.On that same day it was my niece's wedding. My other daughter is one of her closest friends and was one of the bridesmaids. I scheduled to visit my daughter in prison for her birthday and prior I told my niece that I could only make it to the church wedding but not the reception and paying for the meal there, I'd be going after the wedding.As we walked toward the sanctuary, I could feel my stomach churning and beads of sweat forming in my armpits. My daughter Gabby was wearing a fabulous dress we picked out with her ...AITA For Not Fostering My Nieces' Siblings. I am currently the legal guardian of my two nieces - Mandy (F17) and Steph (F15). Their father (my brother) died before Steph was born. Their mother is currently in jail and will be for the next 10 to 15 years. Going from being childless to being the parent of 2 teenage girls has been a pretty big ...I (17M) live with my parents and my younger siblings. We were very close until recently. My first mom died when I was 6 days old. She developed eclampsia in late stages of the pregnancy with me and she never recovered from it. A few weeks later my dad packed up and moved with me because he couldn't stay where they were planning a life together.AITA for making my niece eat in the living room. My sister is a single mom who works long hours, so I watch her daughter (Eva, 14f) after school and feed her dinner alongside my family. I am happy to do this and normally get along great with Eva (we're both bookworms). She has ARFID, and eats a very limited number of things--it's not that she ...Not the A-hole. I (30F) have two siblings: a brother B (34) and a sister S (39). Growing up S got everything she wanted and was spoiled. My parents would make B and I share our birthday and Christmas money with her so she didn't feel left out, but she never had to share with us. She was allowed to do multiple dances classes each week while B ...Instead he'd continuously violate the restraining order by showing up to my parent's house or texting me to see her. I'd always remind him he's violating the order and needs to go through the method the court ordered. Then he'd disappear for months and then repeat the process. I finally moved 2500 miles away with my new partner.ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my niece she looked pretty? Not the A-hole. My (32F) stepsister "Kate" (34F) has always had a complex about physical appearance. It caused a lot of issues for her and all of us over the years and stopped her and I really having a relationship.Aita for refusing to give my newlywed niece the down payment for a house? #reels #reddit #storytime #askreddit #redditstories #aita #redditpostsYour sister needs to postpone this surgery until she has childcare lined up. The jury is actually out on whether or not removing tonsils is beneficial anyway, (see Harvard Health blog, one in five children who have a tonsillectomy has a complication. The most common is breathing difficulty, which can affect one in 10.AITA for kicking out my parents for never telling me about my half-sister. Posted 5mo ago (5 Jan 2022): ... Just imagining how much different the future now looks for the yet-to-arrive niece/nephew...so many feels. 😭😭😭 ... The dad being uninvolved yet remorseful and even admitting OOP is better than him, I think the mother is possibly ...ADMIN MOD. AITA for “tricking” my SIL and “ruining” her skin? Not the A-hole. I dont even know why im posting this, I think its ridiculous but my SIL, MIL and my own mother think im TA. So my (17M) SILs (29F), family are hosting a family gathering, They are big on family and they have room to invite literally everyone, which includes ...Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I told my Aunt and Uncle that their 8 year old is not good enough at art to sell it, and explicitly that mine is more important."My niece perked up a bit when I said that but her mum looked really pissed off. She's since asked my fiancé to pressure me into getting all the bridesmaids dresses so their daughter will have to ...r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.At the very least your niece is getting exposure to different things at your house, even if she'd rather have fast food or takeout. Plus, if you made a separate, seemingly special, meal for her every time she visits, you'd be opening the door for your kids to eventually want the same. Reply reply. Lulu_42. •• Edited.Your parents are AHs of the 1st order. The good news is that this "speak truth to power" exercise is helping prepare you for the Real World, where employers, partners & others solicit your opinion & then criticize, emotionally abuse, or otherwise punish when you respond with unabashed honesty.348K views, 2.1K likes, 45 loves, 1.9K comments, 95 shares, Facebook Watch Videos from Reddit Craziness: AITA for telling my niece why I kept a distance...Aita for admitting that my parents and niece what are the reason that I left. Not the A-hole. Throwaway. I (29 m) have a niece (19f), and as the title says, she and my parents …I ended up apologizing to my brother for not asking him or his wife before shaving Meadow's head for her. My brother told me that he felt he should be the one apologizing, and that, for a week afterwards, Meadow constantly talked about how much better she felt to not have to deal with her hair falling out and making her itchy.And second,b it doesn't completely leave him out. I'd also leave your sister and BIL a snarky amount each, like $4.20. (I've had a trust and a will created and intentionally left my brother out of it, so I left him $1.00) I'd also recommend gifting your niece money while you're alive. Put it into an irrevocable trust.MOD. Aita for admitting that my parents and niece what are the reason that I left. Not the A-hole. Throwaway. I (29 m) have a niece (19f), and as the title says, she and my parents are a massive reason why I moved away. When she was a little kid, she was unbelievably disrespectful, and just downright mean. She would literally scream, yell, if ...I told my sister her stepkids aren't the problem and that my niece needs help to deal with things. I do believe my niece needs more help than she received with her initial therapy sessions. But maybe it wasn't my place to speak up, maybe I'm not looking at …My parents said they did some thinking and they are willing to let her stay under one condition: she needs to contribute and not just with household chores. She …AITA for Blocking My Parents After They Pressured Me to Give Up Custody of My Niece? I (25M) have been raising my niece since she was 1 year old. Her parents, my sister and her boyfriend, went to jail for drug abuse, and I stepped in to take care of her. Over the years, I've grown incredibly close to her I even adopted her 3 years ago, and she ...For taking my niece away from her birth family, and admitting to favoring her over her twin sister. Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes! Do upvote interesting posts! Click Here For Our Rules and Click Here For Our FAQ. Subreddit Announcements. Follow the link above to learn moreI told my niece she was wrong to bully and pressure her brother to do what she thinks is best. Why this might be wrong is her parents have claimed to talk to her and I never asked them if I could. She's not my kid and ultimately is still a kid so it might be wrong for me to interfere in this. My actions might have been too harsh as well.Ever since then, his parents had been covering up for them because they were both students and cannot afford to raise their own child. His parents were the ones buying everything the baby needs, despite not having a stable financial status. When my cousin graduated from college he got a job as clerk in a government organization in our city.AITA for telling my niece that she will survive not being the center of attention for one night? I have 2 nieces Maya14 and Ellie15. Maya is an attention seeker. She will do anything to get all the attention while Ellie is so shy and quiet. Ellie has been battling cancer for a long time and we were all obviously very worried about her.If living there means you're obligated to buy their kids a car, obviously, they shouldn't be living there. Tell your parents that they are moving into your parents' house. Your parents can house them and buy them a car. If parents refuse, they are horrible parents for not helping family. 1.Just last night my grandmother was telling me she got put on a new $500/month medication, and I expressed how grateful I am that they're in a position to afford that without undue hardship. She responded that they couldn't really afford it, and had to take the funds out of their planned inheritance for us grandkids.ADMIN MOD. AITA for yelling at my niece after she laughed at my disabled child's voice. Not the A-hole. I [34F] have a son, Lucas [12M], I had a challenging pregnancy with many complications and Lucas was born with several disabilities and medical conditions. Some of his conditions affect his voice, his voice slurs and he stutters sometimes.It's been 4 weeks since I post the original story. Since then, my parents have trued to rally our relatives (uncles, aunts, cousins and our grandparents) to gang up on my brother and SIL to pressure them to have a biological child, preferably male. However their plan has failed miserably. Most of the relatives told them they were being crazy.AITA for taking my parents assignment too literally and being too honest? Comments ...Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I am taking my children on holiday because some of them aren't invited to my nieces birthday party, rather than specifically excluding 2 of them.HotSpringDrink. MOD. AITA for refusing to call my niece anything else but her chosen name. Not the A-hole. My (27f) husband (33m) and I are currently taking care of his recently orphaned niece (8f) with the plan to later adopt her. Her first name is Kelly and middle name is Ann (fake names) but she prefers to be called Ann and been that way for ...Pale-moose-508. ADMIN MOD. AITA for helping my niece against my sisters wishes? My niece (16F) has been working for a year and saving so that she can buy a car when she gets her P's. She does driving lessons every chance she gets as well as drives with family members when ever possible. When she started working she opened a bank account and had ...(AITA) subreddit, user u/No_Hat5534 said that he is a 48-year-old married man and is child-free by choice. He and his wife both have well-paying jobs, with the poster running a manufacturing plant ...r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.NTA The counsellor cleared it (the one the mom pushed her to see / A professional they had to push the mom to let the daughter see, I misread initially!), she is 18 and YOU paid for it, not her mother, she has no say on what her daughter can and can't do and has no right to blacklist you You're niece is an adult and doesn't need her mom to 'sign off' on medical procedures, not to mention it ...My (34f) sister (31f) was the first among four siblings to have a kid (5f). My niece is incredibly spoiled by my sister, our parents and extended family, and my parents bend over backwards for my sister's requests (like canceling their anniversary trip because my sister asked to babysit while she goes on a girls' weekend).Ok_Bit7036. AITA for telling my niece I'm divorced? Advice Needed. I, (31f) used to be married to my ex husband, Luke, (39m). It was a really abusive relationship and I''m lucky that me and my daughter made it out alive. To give you context on how bad it was : one time when I refused to have sex with him he threatened to kill our then newborn ...r/AmItheAsshole. r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.Something like autism is like that but on an entirely different level. I wish the best for your entire family and that things settle down enough that things can be looked at more rationally so that your niece, and her parents can start to navigate what will be a very challenging time going forward. 7. eirly.Aug 6, 2021 · [Reddit AITA] AITA For Admitting That My Parents And My Neice Is The Reason Why I Left? Reddit Again - AITA. 194 subscribers. 608. 29K views 2 years ago #Parenting #AITA #Family.My parents were incredibly upset, as was I. My sister moved in with the guy immediately. My parents knew I was pissed but had to “support” their daughter. I went NC with Tory and LC with my parents. In 2020 when Tory’s second wedding happened, I didn’t go. Me and my dad had it out over it. My mother tried playing peacekeeper for the family.AITA for giving a bedroom to my niece? Asshole. My brother lost everything recently. He asked me and my husband if he and his family could move in with us for a few months and we agreed. His family consists of his wife, his daughter Jane (14) and his stepdaughter Eve (15). My husband and I live in a 3 bedroom home.Going to go against the grain and say NTA. Your primary responsibility is to your own child. While it's sad that your niece's parents neglect her, you do not have to continue to keep her if that means that your game ceases to be a safe space for your own child. AutoModerator.Not the A-hole. I would like to preface that me (24f) and my sister (22f) are young mothers. She likes to go out a lot, I don't. Just this passed weekend, she wanted to go out to dinner and asked me to watch my niece. I agreed thinking it would be only a few hours. I honestly don't mind watching her. However, it was getting close to 10pm ...OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I told my 13-year-old niece the truth about Santa Claus against her parents’ wishes. I thought I was doing the right thing by having her hear it from me and not a mean girl at school, but her parents are furious at me.Sorry english is my third language. I (24m) will be going on a family vacation in july to meet other family members. I paid $1600 for my ticket and now my older brother and his wife are asking me to pay for one of their kids plane ticket. Before they came to me, my older brother asked our parents first but he owes them 8k.Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I don't want to babysit my niece and it will make my sister struggle with watching her and working, and my family and friends think I should help.. Skyler was never on board with the plan. I heard her My brothers had their first children at 20 and 21, I thought it AITA for telling my niece I didn't want to be her father and following through. Asshole. I'll admit I may not have reacted great, but I don't think I'm wrong overall. My sister and bil passed 5 years ago, and I was left with her children (Eric, 11, Melissa, 14 and Lilly, 7).I never wanted children, and honestly don't particularly like em.HOWEVER, apparently, my cousin has this "very important piano recital" on my graduation day, and she absolutely wanted both my parents there along with HERS. I thought my parents would at least attend my college graduation, but nooooo. Apparently, their own niece's piano recital is more important than their own daughter's graduation. My ... Liza and Cole also have kids. Liza has a son(M7) and Cole ha My (34f) sister (31f) was the first among four siblings to have a kid (5f). My niece is incredibly spoiled by my sister, our parents and extended family, and my parents bend over backwards for my sister's requests (like canceling their anniversary trip because my sister asked to babysit while she goes on a girls' weekend). My(32f) brother Nate (49) married his first ...
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