He spends one week with me and one with my ex. My girlfriend and her daughter moved in with me at the beginning of this year. My son and her have been getting along better than I could've hoped for but lately he's been acting dismissive towards her and her daughter. Last week, we found out that we're going to have a child together.AITA for telling my husband he was wrong for sleeping at someone's house without telling me? AITA- Me (38F) and hubby (37M) have been married 4 years now. ... but he wasn't sure 100%. Also, money was low so he didn't think it would be affordable. The day he got the confirmation email of his new appointment at the embassy, he left in the ...The $15,000 she wants is lot of money. Your mom marrying a man who does not respect you and ignores your requests to stop is not someone you want around you & your family. This is just another story of a weak woman putting a bad man above her family. Don’t give mom a penny for her wedding. Stand your ground OP!ADMIN MOD. AITA for 'hiding' my wealth from my fiance and his family. My fiance (28m) is a doctor, and I 28f work in finance, both earn almost equal pay. Been together for a year and a half, got engaged a month ago and are planning to have a wedding in 7 months. His family is full of doctors, while my dad owns a business, mom is a stah wife ...My ex had a laundry list longer than my arm of diagnosed mental conditions himself, but unfortunately for me, he was also a very skilled manipulator (he learned from the best, his adoptive mother), and was very pretty himself, so my brain stopped working like it should until God had to crack me upside the head with a 2x4 so I would wake the ...By the end of the night, he owed my brother-in-law around £5,000 which isn't the type of money my brother can just easily hand over. When I saw my brother he looked like he was on the verge of a panic attack. After I forced him to tell me what happened I confronted my brother-in-law who thought the entire thing was just some harmless fun.My husband said that was fine however, my son decided not to go last minute because he wanted to just spend time with my husband. (My husband didn't know that but I did) My husband spent the day with Jane and her son even after me telling him that I wasn't happy about him going and that he should cancel - but he said he already told her he ...YTA for stealing from your husband, but more importantly, YTA for thinking this is about the amount. It's not. You've just shown the man you're supposed to love that you are fundamentally untrustworthy, and that you don't even think that's a big deal. Good luck with your marriage now. Reply reply.AITA for not sharing my prize money with my husband. My husband and I have been married for 10 years, we are not in the US. A few weeks ago I saw a competition that we would both qualify for and told him about it. He said he wasn’t interested in it, so I said I would do submissions for both of us anyway to increase my chances of winning.Collegefundbaby. Aita for telling my dad he's not entitled to a relationship with me. Not the A-hole. When i (27f) was around 10 my parents divorced, it was a messy thing, no one ever told me the reason and i do not really care. My mom won custody because she was able to prove in court that my father was an unfit parent.If they decided to get a loan from someone with an insane interest rate without telling you, that’s on them. Your husband has already shown you he can’t be trusted to pay anyone back, not even you. That’s not a good husband. Keep your money away from him and don’t let him make you feel bad. 16.AITA- Husband broke something of mine- I think he should pay for it. My husband got me a diecast motorbike about 6 years ago of my favourite motorbike. It was lovingly looked after on my desk at my old job and then again when I went to working from home. In January, I managed to knock it off of its shelf and I was absolutely gutted.The OOP is u/mariaMK21 posting in r/AITAH. Concluded as per OOP. 2 updates - Short. Original - 20th February 2024. Update1 - 22nd February 2024. Update2 - 25th February 2024. AITA For telling my husband i don't care about his kids? hi, i know i sound like the asshole right from the get go but please hear me out.26.3M views. Discover videos related to aita husband exception update husband pov on TikTok. See more videos about Aita for Expecting My Husband to Make An Exception, Christmas with Husband Ex Story Time, Husband Reaction to Pregnancy, My Husband Started Acting Strangely, My Husband Started Acting Strangely Pt 2, Husband Picks My Makeup Part 2.My husband has a history of mental health concerns surrounding depression and anxiety. He is medicated and although saw a therapist for a decade, he does not see one now. ... AITA for telling my dad that I'm still traumatized from my past to the point where I don't even want to talk to him anymore.I (24f) gave birth to my daughter six months ago and it should've been the happiest moment in my life. When my daughter was born her skin was very dark and looked like she could have two biological parents who were of African descendent. My husband Jim (26m), fake name, was furious and accused me of cheating and left right then and there.OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I have told my sister that she owes my money for stealing my watch for months and bringing back dirty and worn and scratched. I think I'm the asshole for telling her this impulsively and putting all the blame on her for my own negligence.I talked to my husband and we have enough money from the sale of my house and his old bachelor pad a well as our condo to buy back into the market. We were waiting for interest rates to fall. And we were going to move to a more reasonably priced city. I told my son if he could take the living room for now we could have a room for him in six months.He suddenly got mad when my dad asked me what big thing I would do with the inheritance and I told him buy us an airstream. It’s only taking a 5th of the money but my Husband …If you're interested in knowing what your husband's financial situation is, you can inspect his credit report, sometimes known as running a credit check. While you cannot simply ru...Sep 23, 2023 · 2.7K Likes, 76 Comments. TikTok video from redditlisa (@redditlisa): “AITA for telling my husband. My money is mine? #storytime #reddit #redditstories #fyp #story #viral #AITA”. aita for telling my husband my money is mine. Updateoriginal sound - redditlisa.Welcome to Reddit Reads, your ultimate destination for the best Reddit stories on YouTube! Today, we’re bringing you an exciting collection of AITA stories (...But make your husband deal with his mother. Make it clear that the standard he ignores is that standard he accepts, and even though he normally stands up for you, it's time that he stopped the disrespect entirely. Standing up to her hasn't done anything, she's racist and she's escalating her provocative behaviour.Welcome to AITA Insights on YouTube! Immerse yourself in our world of engaging tales, challenging queries, and insightful commentaries.Story: AITA For Tellin...For my mom and for the women he cheated on her with, it was about just getting what he wanted: children because his first wife who he cheated on then with my mom when he first met my mom couldn't have children. My mom gave my dad two sons, eldest dying so I just have one older brother, and me, who he wanted to abort because I was a girl!AITA for telling my husband that my inheritance is mine to do what I want with it. My parents are up in age, my mother is dying and my dad is ok but doesn’t have too many years left. My parents have money and my siblings and I will get a healthy inheritance.Big-Election-4764. AITA for telling my husband he embarrassed me. Not the A-hole. My (44f) husband (44m) and I went to a party. On the way there I told him that one of the couples that would be there were coworkers of mine and to keep his conversations PG-13 around them. (When he gets around another man that I knew was going to be there they ...r/AmItheAsshole • u/Zealousideal_Fly4786 • Feb 07 '22. AITA for telling my husband. My money is mine? Not the A-holeWell, what we hadn't known was that when our great-grandma died, she left my dad all that she had which came up to a sum of a couple thousand dollars that they decided to save for us. And because Cait began talking about maybe going to school, Mom began to save her bill money to add to the sum of the money.ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my parent's that I'm not taking care of them when they get old. Not the A-hole. My mom hit me with the question a few weeks ago, I said no, and they kinda gave me a hard time about it. I've been slightly NC with my family for almost a decade - although I don't think they're aware of it.Asking for permission sets a bad precedent, in case you have the resources to treat yourself he’ll feel entitled to chime in and block the purchase for whatever reason (or no reason). Make sure he doesn’t sit in those chairs. Pull your money out and build your safety nest. He does not deserve to enjoy your bonus.The husband has lived in their apartment for a number of years. The owners recently sold it and the new ones are moving in, so my daughter and her husband have to move. The problem is rents have gone up dramatically.The idea and concept was definitely fresh, and they asked my husband if he would like to invest in their business and become a partner. My husband is also a successful entrepreneur so he knows a good business idea if he sees one. Since my husband already had a lot on his place, he turned down their offer but offered to give them a loan.When I found out about it 2 days later and asked where he got the money, he told me. My MIL and I have a somewhat strained relationship, and money has always been an issue. My husband knows how I feel about this. I told him it would have been nice if he would have talked to me about it before cashing her and borrowing it from her. He tries to ...The story unfolded when a woman seeking advice posted on Reddit's popular "Am I the A**hole" (AITA) forum, sharing that she had informed her husband that the money she earned was hers alone. She explained that she had always worked and managed her own finances, and she felt it was fair that she maintained control over her earnings.On the ride home I call my wife and suggest that I just bring my friends over to my house instead, that way I can help with the baby whenever she needs me to and I'll still get to hang out with my friends whenever I'm not needed by her. She says that she doesn't want people over, and we hang up. At this point I'm mad.I now feel some guilt, my Husband has told me if I want to make me feel better he'll give her money but that seems like a bad idea as she'd likely use it badly or blow through it then expect more. Despite this though I do feel bad, maybe I should have tried to help her more now my luck is better, or maybe I should have been honest with her.If you go for your family get your ass back to that abortion clinic before confessing. It is not fair to put this choice on your husband. This choice needs to be yours. Basically if you tell him en he asks you to abort you will resent him for it. And he will resent himself for it as well. This is your fault.throwaway-36928. AITA for telling my ex his lack of money is not my issue? Not the A-hole. I (36F) have a daughter Sadie (12) with my ex-husband John (39). We got divorced 5 years ago and I have primary custody while he sees her two weekends a month. Last year, he got married to Amanda who has sole custody of her kids (10&8F) from a previous ...Real talk. Your dad is an AH. BUT he’s paying for 1/2 your college. I’m not saying forgive him. I’m just saying bide your time. Ride that gravy train to low or no college debt; maybe even see if you can get some grad school funds before SB graduates and they need to direct money to his schooling.AITAH For not giving my husband my "escape money" when I saw that we were financially struggling. I 34F have recently ran into a situation with my husband 37M and am curious about if I am the AH here or not. So me and my husband have been tother for 8 years, married for 7.I separated from my husband for 7 months and I saw a side of my dad and brother I never thought I would. They treated me terribly and sided with my husband completely. On multiple occasions they both told me to beg my husband for forgiveness even though we separated because of the way he was treating me.My MIL immediately started jumping to her sons defense and said that I couldn't tell her who she could and couldn't have here, so I screamed back "the fuck I can't! You don't pay any bills here, you don't even get your fucking mail here! That kid steps foot on my property one single time again and you'll be out of here!" They leave.r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.When me (f40) and my husband (m39) joined finances, my husband had a more stable salary and I was still studying but working part time. So we decided that we will try to live on his salary leaving mine for university fees, and other extras. He considered this as investment, hoping that I would finish my studies and get a much better salary on a full …It's my medical event. It's my body. It's my delivery/birth journey. Me, me, me, me, me. I, I, I, I, I. It's all about me—the pregnant woman and anything I say goes even though I didn't make this baby on my own and will damn well insist that the other (male) parent provide 50% of the care (emotional, financial, etc.)ADMIN MOD. UPDATE - AITA for telling my husband his “fragile masculinity” is costing us money? Previous Post. Craig and I were able to put the issue regarding the Mercedes behind us, and for the past week, we've been working towards finding a replacement. He was still leaning towards an SUV, and while I considered his opinion, it was ...I didn't know how much money to ask my husband for. And I should have known immediately how much I should want/need Help keep the sub engaging! Don't downvote assholes! Do upvote interesting posts! Click Here For Our Rules and Click Here For Our FAQ. Subreddit Announcements Happy Anniversary, AITA!On the ride home I call my wife and suggest that I just bring my friends over to my house instead, that way I can help with the baby whenever she needs me to and I'll still get to hang out with my friends whenever I'm not needed by her. She says that she doesn't want people over, and we hang up. At this point I'm mad.I wanted her to agree to ground our daughter from social media and make her get a job to pay for the damage. We argued for hours until she said I don't get a say in any punishment because I'm not her father. That ended the argument and I walked off. Since then I've checked out of any parental duties.This has been my mantra for years. Mental illness or a diagnosis can be a reason for behavior, but it's not an excuse. Maybe it's not always reasonable to expect a person to be able to change that behavior, but it is perfectly reasonable for someone to say "this is not behavior I'm willing to tolerate in a friend/partner" whether that behavior is just kind of …r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.I left the table and my husband was still eating. as I was making my way back I heard his dad tell him to take it easy because he was eating a lot. he then asked my husband if I cook for him and if he eats well at home. My husband said that I do cook for him but the food I make can only be fed to pigs not humans. I was hurt and so offended.Apparently he did tell her what it was about before the meeting: to stop having the friends over so much. Here is one thing I have learned with my wife, and other's in my life. If I give them reasons why, they argue back to tell me why my reason is invalid or what they can do to overcome my argument. No matter what reason I give, it is not enough.Recently, my daughter started an affair with a wealthy 25-year-old man she met at a party, organized by one of her friends who works for the wealthy guy. This affair has been ongoing for six months now, and it even reached the point where her new partner met our grandchild two months ago, though he was asked not to tell my son-in-law about it.When me (f40) and my husband (m39) joined finances, my husband had a more stable salary and I was still studying but working part time. So we decided that we will try to live on his salary leaving mine for university fees, and other extras.Tell husband that his words were disrespectful of both our marriage and our home. Tell daughter that if I am acting as a caregiver instead of her mother, I will have equal say in parenting decisions. Since husband has implied I am her caregiver but doesn't allow me to make parenting decisions in my household, I will no longer act as a caregiver.One could only hope it's a shitpost, but young widows/widowers get really really strange comments. I mean my mother in law said about a week after my husband passed that I was a single mom now and should try and get all the support I could. I can't imagine anyone calling an older widow single or anything, you just say they are a widow/widows.You’re so disrespectful, selfish and evil. YTA. Divorcing him is the nicest thing you can do. Give him a chance to find someone who would love and value him. This cannot be real…. I (27f) have been with my husband for 8 years. We were high school sweet hearts and was even voted so in the yearbook.I have a son Weston (14M) who I had, when I was 19. He is being raised by my best friend Lorie (36F) and her mother Annie (56F). Lorie and Annie are the only one who knows what happened. But before I met Rick. I was very immature and I didn’t care. I have a very close friend Liz (34F). She has a husband Jax (35M).The route of “tell my husband to quit his longstanding family activity or get 3 working adults to change a long-fixed schedule” is pretty bold. But when you boil down the root cause to “a 9 year old doesn’t like being around their step-siblings”, that family need to work that out with those kids.AITA for telling my husband everything, even when my children ask me not to. I (46F) tell my husband (57M) everything. We prefer to be open and honest with each other and enjoy this aspect of our relationship. This includes things our four children tell us individually, as we care about our children and want to help them together as partners.AITA for not letting my husband meet our first born child. Not the A-hole. My husband has this best friend, Anna. They've been friends for a long time and dated years ago, mutually deciding that its best for them to remain friends. I've had no problem with this relationship until now. On the day that I gave birth, Anna's brother got into a car ...My ex wife took my kids and left me for another man when my oldest was 2 and the youngest was 6 months. I got joint custody, but she was the primary custodial parent. I got the girls every other weekend and one night a week. We split their birthdays and holidays. Fathers Day was for me and Mothers Day was for her. If it was the others weekend …. Ive 38F been married to my husband Rob 5My husband then proceeds to yell and cuss at me, telling me I'm My parents are also divorced and growing up my father was also a musician. Nothing super famous but he would play gigs all over the state and would also sometimes go to other states to play. However, he never once missed an important milestone of mine. Not even when I had my little elementary school "graduation". I (30 f) have a 14 year old daughter Leia. Married my This has been my mantra for years. Mental illness or a diagnosis can be a reason for behavior, but it's not an excuse. Maybe it's not always reasonable to expect a person to be able to change that behavior, but it is perfectly reasonable for someone to say "this is not behavior I'm willing to tolerate in a friend/partner" whether that behavior is just kind of …My ex just nodded to what I was saying, and asked if he could see our daughter. I was a bit hesitant, but said yes, and called my sister to have her bring our daughter down to the living room. My ex held our daughter, and talked to the baby for a bit before leaving. My sister asked me if I was alright after he was gone, and I told her I was okay. He spends one week with me and one with my ex...
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