That day we found out that the ac wasn't working and it needed a new compressor and condenser so we spent $2100 on that repair. When we got the car back another problem arose and we had to replace the exhaust manifold for $1800. Along with some other maintenance we ended up spending over $4000 on it.My sister has no balance. She either talks a mile a minute. Or she is very quiet and doesn’t talk at all. We went to a family gathering and a lot of our cousins were there that we haven’t seen in years and she talked the crap outta them.NTA. The rest of the family who thinks she is owed the house can contribute to a down payment. You can even offer to contribute the same amount as the other family members (a big fat 0 most likely). Housing problem problem solved! You should probably just stop having the complainers over.When you sell a home quickly, you lose many of the special protections and lowered tax liabilities that the IRS grants you. This is especially true if you are selling an investment...My mom, my uncles and aunts, my 4 cousins. Everybody outside my house saying they decided to come as a surprise. And being super loud too so my first thought is they’re gonna wake him up after it was already a struggle to get him to sleep. My mon said that’s okay because they had these cute Christmas theme onesie for him we could put on for ...In Britain, even the prime minister's family is falling apart over Brexit Jo Johnson, the UK prime minister’s brother, quit his job as a member of parliament and government ministe...Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: Buying the house for 10% of value, knowing my family could use the money from the sale of the houseIt’s very complicated so I’ll do my best to make it make sense. I’ve been married to my husband, Tom, for a year, and we’ve been together for 4 years. I’m 26 and he’s 28, if that’s important. We’re in the north east, England. Since I met Tom and was introduced to the family home, I loved it. It’s old and cluttered with ...The first item is a tractor seat that is bolted to a butcher block to make a funky chair. The second item is a 1970s tacky spice cabinet, and the third thing is a set of stoneware pastry bowls that my mom had saved green stamps to buy. Over the years my siblings have sold, destroyed, or lost the items that they got.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: (1) I sold my husband's ps5 against his approval. (2) I might be the ah since it's a gift essentially and I took it and sold it.AITA For telling my husband that my stepdaughter can't return home until she pays my daughter back ... Reddit Family Drama · February 13 · Follow. AITA For telling my husband that my stepdaughter can't return home until she pays my daughter back. Comments. Most relevant Shay Harper. NTA. If she doesn't learn that there are …AITA for selling a house that was left to me. Not the A-hole. I (m24) grew up next to sweet old lady. Her husband died and she lived alone. When I was 11 she offered me 50 bucks a week to walk her dog since she was unable to. This ended up turning into me helping her around for some cash.So I’m at a bit of a crossroad today. I’m thinking of selling the car I bought for my mom. I love my mom a lot and I got her a new Lexus in 2021. I’m not rich, and honestly it’s not easy paying for it. I’m 27f and my mom is 60, and I have a sibling 37f who lives with me, but I don’t recognize because honestly I hate her.No32. •. After SIL came back form honeymoon MIL asked her if she thinks she'll ever lose the weight and put on the dress, I will admit the way she asked at dinner with everyone around was very rude and awkward. and from what I've seen my mil is not cruel to her daughter or fat shaming her behind the scenes.As an alternative you could sell the pc and use the money you get from it to build a new system for your dad. (Probably better idea depending on the parts) Edit: also doesn't rlly seem like a high end build to me. A high end 2016 build to me would be a 6900k and dual 1080 ti's. Just my opinion though.Aita for not selling our childhood home to my brother. I (30M) bought my parents house from them three years ago, they moved out a year later after finding a house they liked. I've done renovations on the house and have it fit for market. ... My family are happy that I'm selling the house, nobody has been bitter. But my brother wants to buy it ...AITA for telling my husbands kids that my house isn't their family home, and its not my fault their mom lost theirs. AITA for telling my husbands kids that my house isn't their family home, and its not my fault their mom lost theirs. Video. Home. Live. Reels. Shows. Explore. More. Home. Live. Reels. Shows. Explore. AITA for telling my husbands kids …Fake account and fake names since a bunch of friends and family have my actual account. Back in April my friends Jessie (27F), Ashley (27F), Laura (28F) and I (28F) all went to see Taylor Swift. It was a great girls night and when she announced more North American dates over the summer for 2024 we made plans to go again.OP I recommend doing this if only to ease your mind and know where your extended family stand, but don't expect the answer you want. I confronted my family about not stepping in or helping me with my abusive mom, this was over 20 years ago when I was in my early 20's. They told me that it wasn't their place to interfere with my mom's parenting.Apart-Tradition-2235. ADMIN MOD. AITA for selling my stethoscope instead of giving it back to the family? Not the A-hole. I'm (20sF) from an immigrant family in the US. There's a stereotype among members of my community that only a handful of jobs that are acceptable to have (i.e. doctor, lawyer, engineer).OP needs someway to pay for their wedding...00:00 Intro00:09 AITA for selling a family heirloom to pay for my destination wedding?02:29 Commentary06:08 Tea T...A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole. See our ~~*Best Of*~~ "Most Controversial" at /r/AITAFiltered!Posted by u/Whispersnapper - 29 votes and 34 commentsYup. For fucking out loud. My son got married a few years ago and the constant grilling from my family started immediately. I never asked because it's none of my business and that's what I told my family who asked me. I started telling my parents- because once you tell my mom something, the rest of the family knows within an hour- that things are different these days.My family is from South Asia but we live in the States. My parents loved my older brother and tolerated me. They expected me to just stay home and take care of them and my brother. That wasn't for me. I got a partial scholarship to a state school and GTFO. I worked the four years of my undergrad and was fortunate enough to get a full ...It's not like this took 5 seconds to do!!! I'm sure daughter knew but now wants to throw a fit because she did get her way!!! It's not her house..In Britain, even the prime minister's family is falling apart over Brexit Jo Johnson, the UK prime minister’s brother, quit his job as a member of parliament and government ministe...Post:AITA for selling my Nintendo Switch I (22M) and my fiancé (23F) got an apartment a few months ago. So far everything has been okay. We were struggling to pay rent but we have been able to manage to pay all our bills. We do live paycheck to paycheck despite us both working nearly 40 hours a week.They vary from area to area, but let's say that a home like yours would sell for about $300K, with a typical 2.5% commission to the selling agent and 2.5% to the buying agent. That means that if you sell your home normally, for $300K, you're only going to actually get $285K out of it, with the other $15K going to commissions.ADMIN. AITA for selling my father's house even though his widow lives there? No A-holes here. My (33F) father died recently. He had been married to his widow, Penny, for about 7 years before. I was not close with my father, we spoke regularly and enjoyed each other's company, but I can't say either of us knew each other well, for many years ...Sheand my fiance freaked out after I told her that she needed to pay me for a new dress in 3 days or else I'll show the whole family the photo. She started crying and then left and my fiance blew up at me saying I can't be serious and that I overreacted because his mom just wanted to try the dress on, no harm done.Family or not, your great-grandmother's will was/is a legally binding document that they should've upheld, so taking them to court isn't wrong. If that's how you're able to get your inheritance then so be it. NTA...at all. Reply reply. Georgia_girl_52. •. Sadly, this is the reason the family is mad at OP.For the past five years I've been renting the house to a nice family with a young child (5M). They've been great tenants and there haven't been any issues. A month ago I was approached by a realtor about selling my property. He had a buyer who was interested and was ready to offer $60,000 over market because of the location.Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: decided that to meet terms of my dad’s will I would sell some of his property abroad. currently his family live there rent free.AITA for wanting to sell our family home to a stranger even though my half sister will buy it from me to keep it in the family? I 30F am estranged from my dad John. He had an affair when I was 9 and kicked me and my mom out the house when his girlfriend got pregnant with my half sister Jade 21F.My family is from South Asia but we live in the States. My parents loved my older brother and tolerated me. They expected me to just stay home and take care of them and my brother. That wasn't for me. I got a partial scholarship to a state school and GTFO. I worked the four years of my undergrad and was fortunate enough to get a full ...Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: Stating my desire of selling my share of the family land.Selling the marital house without even mentioning it to his wife was a dick move. Yes, it's his sole asset and he had a right to sell it but to say nothing at all to his wife of many years is just ridiculous. He's an AH and a devil! 4. dragonessofages. • 8 mo. ago. Look, darling, the rich are at it again.People like your ex need to understand that when a person cuts someone off, it's usually for a good reason. They don't get to decide when you should forgive someone. No one is owed or entitled to forgiveness. Not everyone had the privilege of having healthy relationships with their family. Your DNA sharer doesn't deserve the title of dad.AITA for selling the family heirloom even though I had the legal right to do so? I've recently found myself in a whirlwind of family drama, and I'm honestly unsure if I've done the right thing. My great-grandmother left behind a valuable family heirloom - a vintage grand piano. In her will, she bequeathed it to me specifically, stating that she ...ADMIN MOD. AITA for not telling my bf that my dad/family is “rich”? No A-holes here. So, my bf “Callum” and I have been together for 8 months, and over this long weekend I figured it would be a good time for him to meet my dad. He has met my mom and stepdad a couple of times, but always at restaurants or my place.AITA for selling my mothers Wedding dress ... In the same way that I hope my daughter wouldn't sell my dress without discussion with other family members who would maybe like to use it. ... You may have had the legal right to sell the dress, but you should have talked to your family first. A wedding dress often carries a great deal of meaning.AITA for taking in my "problem cousin" and cancelling family events. Not the A-hole. Me (m30) and wife (f27) own a sizeable farm that is usually the nexus of family events. 5 Bedrooms, 3 bathrooms, 300 acres and electrical hookups for 4 campers so the whole clan can come stay for extended visits in the summer. We built it that way deliberately.AITA For Wanting To Sell Our Family Home To A Stranger Even Though My Half Sister. admin May 18, 2024 AITA. : ob_end_flush (): Failed to send buffer of zlib output compression (0) in on line.AITA for selling the house my brother and his family live in. : r/AmItheAsshole. Go to AmItheAsshole. r/AmItheAsshole. r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have ...r/AmItheAsshole. r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.7 years ago I was married and expecting a baby when things went horribly wrong. Around 10 weeks into my pregnancy I suffered a miscarriage and then I returned home to find my husband in bed with my sister. The two of them tried to apologize and convince me that we could all get over it.AITA for asking my husband to move because I am fed up with his family : r/AmItheAsshole. Go to AmItheAsshole. r/AmItheAsshole. r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you ...If the family agreement is that your job is to stay home and care for the kids, then his money is 100% your money, too. You are not entitled for expecting to be treated as an equal in the relationship. This is 100% about being treated as an equal and instead your husband treats you like you don't deserve nice things because you are not a wage ...My mom came with my brother's (I have 3 older brothers). My mom super angry told my husband. "Since your family can stay so can we." My mom quickly took charge. I was sent to bed. My brother's started cleaning complaining loudly at how disgusting my BIL family is.AITA for selling an heirloom of my ex-husband’s family. When I (36F) married my ex-husband (40M), my MIL gave me a diamond ring that was in her family for several generations, as a wedding gift. We divorced after 7 years, primarily because he decided he no longer wanted children (we’d both wanted them when we got married).Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: Making my ex husband sell his childhood home 2) he wasn't fit to live on his own and cannot take care of himself. Help keep the sub engaging!Living-Artichoke-315. ADMIN MOD. AITA for causing a scene when my husband's family showed up for dinner again. Not the A-hole. This evening, I made a scene in front of my husband's family while they ate dinner at our house. My husband's family came over for dinner the second time this week. They were also over last week and the week before.OP NTA, it's your home so your parents have absolutely no say whatsoever who can and can't stay there without consulting the person who owns the property. They sold it to you, so it is no longer the family holiday/lake house, its your house. They don't get to take the money from the sale and still dictate who can and can't use it, that's not ...A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole. See our ~~*Best Of*~~ "Most Controversial" at /r/AITAFiltered!I 34 f own 2 properties one my family and I live in and the other is supposed to be an income property. In 2020 my mother, stepfather, and one of my siblings moved into my other property. They lived in the house for a year rent free as they were fixing minor things in the house. September of 2021 I asked them if they could pay $300 a month to ...A Dad Wants To Sell One Daughter's Car To Pay For the Other Daughter's Tuition & Reddit Is Absolutely Losing It. by Rebecca Rakowitz. April 10, 2024 at 10:38am EDT. Adobe Stock. Family ...I ended up accruing a whole lot of disposable income in a short time. Stupidly, instead of just keeping quiet about it, I decked out my room with a new TV, headphone and a PS5. Obviously, this setup was of great interest to my two step-brothers. Initially, my rule was that they could play the PS5 anytime I wasn’t using it but I would get ...Fockin ridic. r/AmItheAsshole •. AITA for selling my family home because my pregnant sil ate my dinner. I know shitty title but I'm in a rush to get to work so excuse my grammar. Also I want to point out me and my brother have two different fathers. I (19f) lost my father last year to cancer he left me 90% of his stuff including his family ...My (F30) husband (M31) dated Kathy (F30) for three years while at university. They were planning to get married when Kathy fell pregnant, but she confessed the child may be another man's. They broke up, but a DNA test proved my husband was the father. As such, my husband agreed to co-parent but refused to rekindle the relationship.My mom gave me a list of demands that were just outside my ability. Return to school, when I had dropped out due to depression. Reconcile with my ex, who had cheated on me. Therapy wasn't an option. It was her way or the high way. I was pretty young and couldn't articulate my points well. At the time my roommate was forcing himself on me.Her immediate family fought hard to get the home from me but I fought hard to keep it. I offered for them to visit and grab any family keep sakes but after that the home was mine. I decided I’m selling the home and moving across the country for a new job opportunity. Her family came at me hard and demanded I sell to them. I told them I’ll ...AITA for selling a house that was left to me. Not the A-hole. I (m24) grew up next to sweet old lady. Her husband died and she lived alone. When I was 11 she offered me 50 bucks a week to walk her dog since she was unable to. This ended up turning into me helping her around for some cash.AITA for telling extended family that my brother was an abusive piece of shit and taking his ex wife’s side in the divorce . My brother was married to Katrina for 8 years. He has a 10 year old daughter from a one night stand. Bio mom is not in the picture. Katrina is the only mom my niece, Elise, has ever known. She became a stay at home mom when Elise …op=NTA. This is a premarital asset--if you sell and invest in new house, it becomes a joint asset, if you put the profit from a sale into the house--it becomes a marital asset. DO NOT DO THIS, also just to be safe in case your jurisdiction has other rules that could make it a joint asset get a Prenup.After some discussion, my wife-to-be and I decided that we would like to sell the heirloom to pay for our wedding. My brother, who is also my best man, was furious when he found out, and said he wanted nothing to do with the wedding anymore. He thinks my wife-to-be and I are behaving like spoiled brats.After some discussion, my wife-to-be and I decided that we would like to sell the heirloom to pay for our wedding. My brother, who is also my best man, was furious when he found out, and said he wanted nothing to do with the wedding anymore. He thinks my wife-to-be and I are behaving like spoiled brats.No32. •. After SIL came back form honeymoon MIL asked her if she thinks she'll ever lose the weight and put on the dress, I will admit the way she asked at dinner with everyone around was very rude and awkward. and from what I've seen my mil is not cruel to her daughter or fat shaming her behind the scenes.You're not wrong to refuse to live in one of their properties - if you want to be independent it's the last thing you'll need. And if they buy it it will indeed be their property in their heads, regardless of whether they 'give' it to you or not. You are completely right to look for a place of your own. 6.Yes it is. Rent for a similar home in the area would be $2700 for a 3 bedroom with the same square footage. He does not have the credit or finances to buy a home but because the home has skyrocketed in value the mortgage is much cheaper than if you even got a mortgage today on the same home.AITA for selling the family heirloom of a stranger, and dodging a request to share the profits? My mother 'S' retired a couple years ago, and has taken up flipping things on eBay or DePop as a hobby. She does not do this with the intent to hit it big, she just enjoys the hunt and running into cool pieces.7 years ago I was married and expecting a baby when things went horribly wrong. Around 10 weeks into my pregnancy I suffered a miscarriage and then I returned home to find my husband in bed with my sister. The two of them tried to apologize and convince me that we could all get over it.This fake as hell, but medical bills aren’t the only bills that have to be paid. If he’s in a coma and not working their income is likely affected (or would be if real) and the rent, car, insurance, utilities, phone, etc. still have to be paid. Seriously. I was expecting it to have been much longer….It's only if you make 3 claims per calendar year and then they have to be pretty big claims. Also, let's for arguments sake say that they did increase your payments by say $20 a month, it would take 400 months to add up to $8000 of damages. $20 a month isn't that life changing but paying $8000 in one lump sum is hard.AITA for selling a family heirloom to pay for my destination wedding? My fiancée (38F) and I (39M) are planning to get married this summer. We both want to have quite a lavish wedding at a winery in another state. The two of us agree that it's the most important occasion in our lives, so we should make it as memorable as possible.Posted by u/Whispersnapper - 29 votes and 34 commentsI inherited a house from my dad. I don't want it and am not attached. I am selling it to cover my student debt and my half sister wants the house for sentimental reasons. I offered it …I sent my kids to my family (as I planned to spend the Holidays away) after the school semester was done and he only talked about using my kid’s bedrooms for his family. I didn’t agree. Also, I was very uncomfortable leaving for Xmas and letting his family take over the house. The house was sold, and I didn’t tell him because he would ...1 I booked a hotel room while visiting my wife's family because they insisted I sleep on the couch instead of sharing a bed with her. 2 I might be the asshole because her family is now upset and is refusing to allow me back into the house, and this is causing problems between my wife and her parents.We have 3 kids (4yr old girl & twins born last year). Our townhome is crowded to say the least, so we’re looking to cash out the beach house & sell our home to buy a house to fit our growing family. I mentioned my intentions to Sara who freaked out. Saying I can’t, & “that home is All we have left of our family.” Which is ludicrous, we ...AITA For Wanting To Sell Our Family Home To A Stranger Even Though My Half Sister. admin May 18, 2024 AITA. : ob_end_flush (): Failed to send buffer of zlib output compression (0) in on line.OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I invited my parents to my wedding as guests rather than as part of the ceremony and stuff. I might be the asshole because when they complained I offered to include them more in my life if they gave me the same amount of money they spent on my siblings.Background: My husband (35M) and I (33F) have been married for five years. We own a beautiful vacation home on the beach that we built ourselves and use throughout the year. My in-laws (60s) have always been welcome guests, visiting for a few weeks here and there, and contributing financially towards maintenance costs. Last month, my in-laws ...My whole family found out from me and things were explosive for a while. My parents went after my brother, as did my sister, to tell him how shitty what he had done was, how could he do it, was he cruel or just dumb, etc. Eventually things settled and I think what sparked that was Amy getting pregnant with his kid. I stood firm. I was not ...If you are considering putting your home on the market, you are not alone. Each year, millions of homes are put on the market. Data from the National Association of Realtors shows ...A few days ago, my bio-son Jonah (not real name) posted a biased and frankly defamatory post about an incident in my home regarding a PS5. My wife was kind enough to share the post and comments with our entire extended family at our Christmas gathering so apparently now I'm a huge asshole.I don't expect to be taken care of when I get old, me and my husband already talked about this, and unless my son wants to, we will not ask him to take care of us. 5. Just to clarify, I am not Indian. While I love India and I've been there once with my husband, I just want to clarify I'm South American.You're not wrong to refuse to live in one of their properties - if you want to be independent it's the last thing you'll need. And if they buy it it will indeed be their property in their heads, regardless of whether they 'give' it to you or not. You are completely right to look for a place of your own. 6.. They tell me to leave their house. I lost it, and told them For this issue, I figured that a family trip is what the family So I’m at a bit of a crossroad today. I’m thinking of selling the car I bought for my mom. I love my mom a lot and I got her a new Lexus in 2021. I’m not rich, and honestly it’s not easy paying for it. I’m 27f and my mom is 60, and I have a sibling 37f who lives with me, but I don’t recognize because honestly I hate her.AITA For Telling My In Laws That If They Want A Gr… AITA For Getting A Tattoo For My Sister; AITA For Leaving The Village While Pregnant; AITA For My Son For Causing A Scene In School; AITA For Not Agreeing To Share A Hotel Room In Veg… Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and re In a heart-wrenching tale shared on Reddit, a 22-year-old woman finds herself at the center of a family conflict after deciding to sell her late parents' house. With her parents' … r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustra...
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